The alarm goes off. Wojak stares at the ceiling, already tired of a day that hasn't started. His phone lights up, but he doesn't feel like replying. He wishes the snooze button worked on feelings.
Eventually, he sits up, drinks some water, and opens the curtains. Nothing suddenly feels easy. But he's out of bed, and this morning, that's enough to start with.
The smile is on. The feelings are still there. Wojak answers messages, laughs at the right moments, and gives his usual βyeah, all good.β Meanwhile, his brain has 37 browser tabs open.
Keeping up the act takes more energy than he expected. When someone asks how he's doing, he almost gives an honest answer. Almost.
Wojak opens a friend's chat and stares at the empty message box. He types a sentence, deletes it, then tries again. βHey. I've been having a rough time. Can we talk?β This time, he hits send.
His stomach flips while he waits. Then a reply appears: βOf course. I'm here.β He doesn't have to explain everything perfectly. He just has to start.
Over a cup of tea, Wojak finally says what his βI'm fineβ has been hiding. His friend listens without rushing him. No βjust cheer up.β No speedrun to a solution. Even the awkward pauses are okay.
They talk about what support could look like, including speaking with a mental health professional. Wojak saves a few options to look into. One conversation hasn't fixed everything, but the next step feels possible.
He doesn't need all the answers to take the next step.
Back home, Wojak puts his phone down and thinks about the day. The hard feelings haven't disappeared. Tomorrow might still be difficult. But someone knows how he's doing now, and he has a place to start.
Before bed, he sends one more message: βThanks for listening.β Then he sets his alarm. Same Wojak. Small smile. A little more hope for tomorrow.
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